QUESTION: So how can I stop him?
ANSWER: It is simple. Firstly, be clear in your mind what you want.
Secondly, clearly and briefly tell him so. Thirdly, when he asks you questions like ‘What is your belief on this matter’ or ‘Why don’t you wish to come to the meeting with me,’ clearly, politely and persistently repeat your first statement. ‘Thank you for the invitation but I would rather not come.’
allow him to get you involved in a discussion, he will eventually give up. It is a shame that you have to do this, but it is very important for people to learn that they cannot impose their beliefs or wishes upon others.
ANSWER: It is simple. Firstly, be clear in your mind what you want.
Secondly, clearly and briefly tell him so. Thirdly, when he asks you questions like ‘What is your belief on this matter’ or ‘Why don’t you wish to come to the meeting with me,’ clearly, politely and persistently repeat your first statement. ‘Thank you for the invitation but I would rather not come.’
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